Hwee Min's blog: She wrote that it was better to feel angry at someone rather than feel disappointed because you can get over anger but not disappointment.

i'm not sure if i agree or not. i get angry easily and i let go of it very fast. then i feel guilty because i said or did things in anger.

disappointments rule my life. everytime i expect something, i don't seem to get it. and it's not as if i'm asking for the world. i'm merely asking for something so simple. somethings that i deserve. who ever said life was fair? no one did.

but one thing is similar. no matter how angry or disappointed you are over/at someone, will it make you like the person any less? if you are friends, people you care about, the anger and the disappointment caused will seem little after a while. because you care too much to be mad, care too much to "not care".

both anger and disappointment can be gotten over, it just depends on the time factor. still, disappointments can last a lifetime, while anger, like i said earlier, is easier to get rid off. i should know.

i guess that's just my opinion, and i'm not sure if i agree or disagree with that statement, it's just something that i felt was worth dwelling on. especially with what happened today...

when the anger comes, i just want to lash out.

whatever.

but then, i realise that i'll end up making excuses.

like i said, i care too much to remain angry.

still...